Au Pair
An au pair is another term for a foreign-national domestic assistant that works and lives with a
host family.
The name "au pair" is literally a French term meaning "on a par" or "equal to". It sends the
connotation that the relationship is one of equals in that the au pair becomes a member of the host
family, rather than a domestic servant. In reality it is often a lopsided relationship and the au pair
receives on a small stipend and a private room in return for the services they provide the family. The services
they offer are domestic in nature and may include some form of child care.
Often times the au par will come from another country, and in the ideal situation both parties benefit from
learning about the other's culture. Similarly it is reasonable common for the au pair and the family
to remain on good terms long after the au pair has left.
Au pairs are fairly common in Europe and to a lesser degree America. Whilst the demand and requirements
seem to vary from country to country, there are a couple of basics that a potential au pairs must cover:
- Ideally they should be from 18-26 years old
- Child care experience is virtually a must.
- Being a non-smoker and non-drug user is a basic. Some families may accept smokers, but this will
dramatically decrease your chances.
- The ability to hold a basic conversation in the language your hosts country is a big
bonus
- Preferably be to make a commitment of about 12 months, although in some cases there are shorter summer
placements available.
My advice is to choose carefully as both a host family or au pair. A good matching can be a wonderful,
enriching experience for both parties; but if it does not work out is can be quite dreadful.
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